American-Ghanaian filmmaker and movie producer, Leila Afua Djansi has urged men to end their relationships with women who rely on airtime to survive.
According to her, such women are incapable of complementing and supporting men in the way that women were meant to do.
“Men, men, draw ya ears: BREAK up post haste with any lady you’re dating now who needs funds from you for her basic needs and phone bills. This is NOT a woman who can partner with you in marriage,” she said.
Leila Afua Djansi believes that marriage is a long-term investment that requires both parties to feel comfortable before entering into it.
“If you and your intended are not financially set, with savings, joint accounts, and investments, please do NOT get married or have children! I am so heartbroken seeing so much need on social media this morning!”
There is, according to Leila Djansi, a need to assure comfortability in the marriage, especially for the children, and to plan for certain eventualities, and if that cannot be done, then there is no need to push yourself to marry if you are not comfortable.
Her post read “If you and your intended are not financially set, with savings, joint accounts, and investments, please do NOT get married or have children!
I am so heartbroken seeing so much need on social media this morning! Men, men, draw ya ears: BREAK up post haste with any lady you’re dating now who needs funds from you for her basic needs and phone bills. This is NOT a woman who can partner with you in marriage.
“Marry someone whose earning can complement yours. Not one that will not make a significant difference, and that’s why a spouse is also referred to as a significant other. Stop chasing the flimsy wife material and find you a nice strong blanket.
If you’re planning to enter a marriage and have kids, Please, please, PLAN and include any eventualities cos shit happens.
Give those kids the comfortable life you either had or did desired. Pay it forward. I don’t care how much God is in control. God ALLOWS shit to happen, so you better be prepared like the ten wise virgins!”.
Source: unitedshowbiz.com.gh